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Good bye, my Love

Filed under: Uncategorized — simplejhajha at 4:15 am on Thursday, December 11, 2008

Goodbye, my love

I gave you my heart
But I did not tell you
And for a long time
I did not know it myself
.
I gave you extra patience
And much understanding
But you did not know why
I gave you too much.
.
You are so naïve in these thing
You don’t even see it
Your are blind to my feelings
You are undeserving.
.
We are both aching now
In our own special ways
I don’t know about you
But in time I will prevail
.
I will be stronger
Just now feeling pain
My heart aches
My heart bleeds
.
But this proves one only thing
I am human
I am breathing
I am alive
.
I feel, I feel all the pain
I nourish from it
I will grow from it
I will learn from it
.
I will,
As time heals all things
Flourish from it.
Goodbye, my love

The Rules of Breaking Up…

Filed under: Uncategorized — simplejhajha at 4:12 am on Thursday, December 11, 2008

Oh no, you’ve been dumped again. Life as you know it is over, you never knew anyone you loved could hurt you this much, you’ll never date again and die an old lady with cats…

Do not, under any circumstances, call him

You’re usually a hard woman, with many strong opinions and a take no bull attitude. Suddenly you’ve been reduced to a blob that just wants to cry and eat ice-cream. Worse of all, you feel as if the only way the pain will stop is if you talk to the person who caused it in the first place. You need to stop. Talking to someone who broke your heart is never a good idea.

All it will do is reinforce what you already know – the relationship is over, and he doesn’t love you. “But he’s just confused!”, we hear you wail. Let’s put it this way – if you thought someone was your soulmate, would you let them go, ever? For any reason? Thought so.

Don’t egg his car, harass his new girlfriend, prank call him, etc…
As well as legal reasons (ie welcome to jail: population = you), will this really help how you’re feeling? All you’re doing is hanging on to him, and to something that no longer exists. Try to occupy your time with more productive activities. If you can’t sleep, get up and go to the gym, or call a friend. If you can’t work, take a holiday – we think tropical islands are nice. How about Vanuatu?

Friends? What friends?
The friends line has been in existence since Antony and Cleopatra. We’re sure he told her that he wanted them to remain friends too…after he went home to his WIFE. Don’t torture yourself with this. You know the only reason, the real reason, you want to be friends is in case there’s a chance he’ll change his mind. He might do, but the bigger chance is that he won’t. Most people have already checked-out of the relationship by the time they get round to breaking up.

And think about this: this man has thought about it deeply, decided that you’re not the one, and he would rather be alone (or with someone else) rather than you. Don’t humiliate yourself. Walk away with some dignity.

Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face
If you live together, then breaking up becomes more than an emotional storm. It could mean a legal and financial mess as well. Don’t become so angry and sad that you just tell him to take everything, because you don’t want anything that reminds you of him. You’ll regret this when you’ve moved into your new pad and all you have is a pot and some cushions.

Or if you’re stuck with all the bills because you don’t have a joint account. Make sure you set aside time to have a meeting with him, to decide who gets custody of the cat, and what to do about your finances.

10 Things You Should Never Put Up With

Filed under: Uncategorized — simplejhajha at 4:09 am on Thursday, December 11, 2008

All guys have a few bad habits that we just need to learn to deal with (otherwise we would probably be alone forever!)…

However there are some habits that cross the line, and unfortunately we often don’t find these out until we’ve got feelings and emotions that are too hard to wriggle out from.

But you need to realise that you deserve to be treated right and with respect. So if any of the following are familiar… Think seriously about ditching that dud!

1: Control freak

This monster can come in many different shapes and forms, so beware. It will start with a few little comments here and there, and maybe a bit of the old, “aww, do you have to go out with your friends? I wanted to spend tonight with you!”. As you let it happen more and more, you will gradually lose grip of being able to plan your weekend and outings with the girls. Together time is important, but it needs to be balanced with time doing your own thing. He can’t tell you who you can/can’t see, you’ll only lose friends and your individuality. You only have one life; why in the world would you let someone else be in charge of it?!

2: Name calling
Even if he does say sorry every time after he does it, it still isn’t right. It is degrading and after awhile you might actually begin to accept them. It is a form of abuse and it’s not the behaviour of someone that loves you.

3: Did someone say slave?

Starting to feel like his personal slave as you do his washing, cooking, make his lunch, buy his undies, tidy his room, change the sheets etc… Well news flash, unfortunately you aren’t his girlfriend anymore; you’re his mum. Believe me, although you might not mind it now, you will resent him for it in the future.

4: Physical
Hopefully this is pretty straight to the point. It is NOT EVER right for anyone to hit you, let alone your partner. DON’T EXCUSE it, and get away from him straight away.

5: Humiliation
Does he make jokes about you in front of his and your friends? Does he tease you and tell stories that should only be between the two of you? That is SO not right, because how does it make you feel? Not so hot we’re guessing…


6: Druggie!
Don’t think you have ever been around your man without him being high on something? Sorry, but he probably loves his drugs more than anything else, including you! While he is young, it may not interfere too much with your life, but the longer it goes on it can create physiological, financial and not too mentional legal problems in the future. Don’t put up with this as it will only end in tears.

7: A leopard never changes his spots
OK, so mistakes happen. But they don’t happen over and over again. No one will change just because someone else wants them to, and it takes a lot of internal concentration to break habits. If you continually take him back, he probably won’t have that drive to change, but if you walk away he will hopefully love you enough to realise enough is enough.

8: Sugar-mumma
He never has any money so you have to pay up for everything? Or maybe he does have the cash, but just doesn’t want to spend any of his when he can spend yours?  This is definitely a no-no! If he has a job, why do you have to support him? And if he doesn’t have a job, well he should do his hardest to get one! Sorry, he is just using you (even though he may love you to, he can’t expect you to continue paying for everything, he has no respect for you).

9: Second in line to mates?
This is a hard one, because most girls experience it in relationships. Sure, having time apart with your friends is important, but what if you never see him on the weekend because he is either watching or playing sport, drinking and playing Playstation with his mates? This is not good behaviour and you don’t have to put up with it. If he doesn’t want to spend time with you, why does he want a girlfriend? You need to either discuss it with him, or just leave one night when he is out with the boys and I think he will get the drift.

10: Liar, liar pants on fire!
Finding out someone is lying to you causes a yucky, scary, sick feeling in your stomach. Especially if it is someone close to you. You have to ask why do they need to lie and what are they covering up that could possibly hurt you? How can you believe anything they say if lies always seem to mix into conversation? It will only end up in heartache, so get out before you get in too deep. Again, don’t excuse this behaviour, it is not the efforts of someone who truly loves and cares about how you feel.

catholic mass

Filed under: Uncategorized — simplejhajha at 1:59 am on Thursday, December 11, 2008

The Lord’s Prayer

Our Father in heaven, holy be your name. Your Kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us. Do not bring us to the test but deliver us from evil. Amen

The Hail Mary

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women,
and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory Be to the Father Prayer

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen

The Creed

I believe in God, the Father Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth. I believe in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord. He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried. He descended to the dead. On the third day He rose again. He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again to judge the living and the dead. I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy Catholic Church, the communion of Saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and life everlasting. Amen.

Guardian Angel prayer

Angel of God, my guardian dear, to whom God’s love entrust me here
Ever this day, be at my side, to light and guard, to rule and guide. Amen

The Holy Mass

On Sundays, we go to Mass. Jesus is there in the person of the priest. He offers himself again to the Father. Jesus redeems us again to the Father. Jesus redeems us again from sin and evil.

Jesus is present in the Mass. It is he who speaks to us in the readings of the Mass. When the priest reads the Gospel or gives the homily, he speaks to us in Jesus name. Let us listen attentively to his Word.

During the preparation of the Gifts, bread and wine are brought as offering and we prepare our hearts to offer ourselves with Jesus. During the Eucharistic prayer, the bread and wine become Jesus himself. It is then that Jesus offers himself to the Father. We cannot see Jesus, but we can see the priest. The priest speaks and acts in the name of Jesus. Through the priest, Jesus offers himself and us to the Father. We are all invited to join Jesus in offering himself to the Father, and to offer ourselves with Jesus.

During communion, we eat of the body and we drink of the blood of Jesus. “He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood will have eternal life,” Jesus had said. The person who receives Holy Communion should not be in mortal sin. Communion is received for love of Jesus and not in order to be seen and admired by others: Jesus wants to come to us so that he may fill us withhis grace. The friends of Jesus avoid sin because serious sin separates them from God and even small sins hurts our friendship with God.

The Sacrifice of the Mass

Introductory Rites

All stand for the opening song.

After the entrance song, all make the sign of the cross.

Priest: In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

People: Amen.

GREETINGS

(a)

Priest: the grace of Our Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.

People: And also with you.

(b)

Priest: The grace and peace of God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ be with you.

People: Blessed be God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Or

(c)

Priest: The Lord be with you.

People: And also with you.

Penitential Rite

After the introduction to the Mass, the priest invites the people to recall their sins and to repent of them in silence. Then one of the following forms is used:

(a)

Priest and People: I confess to Almighty God,
and to you, my brothers and sisters,
that I have sinned through my own fault.
(They lightly strike their breast)
in my thoughts and in my words,
in what I have done,
and in what I have failed to do;
and I ask blessed Mary, ever virgin,
all the angels and saints,
and you, my brothers and sisters,
to pray for me to the Lord our God.

(b)

Priest: Lord, we have sinned against you: Lord, have mercy.

People: Lord, have mercy.

Priest : And grant us your salvation

(c)

Priest: You were sent to heal the contrite: Lord, have mercy.

People: Lord, have mercy.

Priest: You came to call sinners: Christ, have mercy.

People: Christ, have mercy.

Priest: You plead for us at the right hand of the Father: Lord, have mercy.

People: Lord, have mercy.

At the end of any of the forms of penitential rite:

Priest: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive is our sins, and bring us tp everlasting life.

People: Amen

KYRIE

Priest : Lord, have mercy.

People: Lord, have mercy.

Priest: Christ, have mercy.

People: Christ, have mercy.

Priest: Lord, have mercy.

People: Lord, have mercy.

When it is prescribed, this hymn is said or sung.

GLORIA

All : Glory to God in the highest, and peace on earth. Lord, God, heavenly King, almighty God and Father,we worship you, we give you thanks, we praise you for your thanks, we praise you for your glory. Lord Jesus Christ, only Son of the Father, Lord God, Lamb of God, you take away the sin of the world: have mercy on us: you are seated at the right hand of the Father: receive our prayer. For you alone are the Most High, Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit, in the glory of God the Father, Amen.

OPENING PRAYER

Prayer: Let us pray.

Priest and people pray silently for a while. Then the priest says the opening prayer and concludes:

Priest…forever and ever.

People: Amen

LITURGY OF THE WORD

Sit

Reader: A reading from…

At the end of the reading…

Reader: This is the Word of the Lord.

People: Thanks be to God.

RESPONSORIAL PSALM AND/OR ALLELUIA

GOSPEL

All stand to honor the Gospel.

Priest: The Lord be with you.

People: And also with you.

Priest: A reading from the holy Gospel according to…

People: Glory to you, O lord

At the end of the Gospel:

Priest: This is the Gospel of the Lord.

People: Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.

HOMILY

Sit

PROFESSION OF FAITH

Stand

We believe in one God, the Father, the Almighty, maker of heaven and earth, of all that is seen and unseen.

We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God, eternally begotten of the Father, God from God, Light from Light, true God from true God, begotten, not made, one in Being with the Father. Through him all things were made. For us men and for our Salvation he came down from heaven: by the power of the Holy Spirit (All bow at the following words up to “and became”.) he was born of the Virgin Mary, and became man.

For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate; he suffered, died, and was buried. On the third day he rose again in fulfillment of the Scriptures; He ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end.

We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life, who proceeds from the Father and the Son. With the Father and the Son he is worshipped and glorified. He has spoken through the Prophets.

We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church.

We acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins.

We look for the resurrection of the dead, and the life of the world to come. Amen.

APOSTLES’ CREED

I believe in God, the Father almighty,
creator of heaven and earth.

I believe in Jesus Christ, God’s only Son, our Lord,
who was conceived by the Holy Spirit,
born of the Virgin Mary,
suffered under Pontius Pilate,
was crucified, died, and was buried;
he descended to the dead.
On the third day he rose again;
he ascended into heaven,
he is seated at the right hand of the Father,
and he will come again to judge the living and the dead.

I believe in the Holy Spirit,
the holy catholic church,
the communion of saints,
the forgiveness of sins,
the resurrection of the body,
and the life everlasting. A
MEN.

GENERAL INTERCESSIONS

PRAYER OF THE FAITFUL

After the introduction by the Priest, the deacon or other minister sings or says the invocation

People: Lord, Hear our prayer

Or other response according to local custom. At the end, the priest says the concluding prayer.

People: Amen

LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

While the gift of the people are brought forward to the priest and are placed on the altar; the offertory song is sung. If there is no offertory song, the priest says the offertory prayers for bread and wine aloud.

Priest: . . . the bread of life.

People: . . .Blessed be God for ever.

Priest:….our spiritual drink.

People: Blessed ne God for ever.

All stand

Priest: pray breathen, that our sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the almighty Father.

People: May the Lord accept the sacrifice at your hands for the praise and glory of his name, for our good of all his Church.

PRAYER OVER THE GITS

Stand

The Priest, speaking in our name, asks the Father to bless and accept these gifts. At the end:

Priest:…through Christ our Lord.

People: Amen.

EUCHARISTIC PRAYER

Priest : The Lord be with you.

People: And also with you.

Priest: Lift up your hearts.

People: We lift them up to the Lord.

Priest: Let us give thanks up to the Lord.

Priest: It is right to give him thanks and praise.

PREFACE

SANCTUS

Priest and People: Holy, holy, holy Lord,

God of power and might,

heaven and earth are full of your glory.

Hosanna in the highest.

Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.

Hosanna in the highest.

The people kneel after the Sanctus is said or sung.

MEMORIAL ACCLAMATION

Stand

After the consecration:

Priest: Let us proclaim the mystery of faith:

People:

(a)Christ has died,

Christ is risen,

Christ will come again.

Other acclamations:

(b)Dying you destroyed our death

Rising you restored our life.

Lord Jesus, come in glory.

(c)When we eat this bread drink this cup, we proclaim your death, Lord Jesus, until you come in glory.

(d)Lord, by your cross and resurrection you have set us free. You are the Savior of the world.

(e)Special acclamation for the Philippines

Your death, O Lord, we commemorate. Amen.

Your glory as our Risen

Lord, now we celebrate. Amen.

You return as Lord in glory,

Together we await.

Amen.

COMMUNION RITE

THE LORD’S PRAYER

Priest: Let us pray with confidence to the Father in the words our Savior gave us:

People: Our Father in heaven, holy be Your Name. Your Kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us. Do not bring us to the test but deliver us from evil.

Priest: .. for the coming of our Savior, Jesus Christ.

People: For the kingdom, the power and glory are yours, now and forever.

SIGN OF PEACE

Priest:…forever and ever.

People:Amen.

Priest:The peace of the Lord be with you always.

People:And also with you.

Priest:Let us offer each other the sign of peace.

The people exchange a sign of peace and love according to local custom.

LAMB OF GOD

People: Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: have mercy on us. Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: have mercy on us. Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world: have mercy on us.

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world; grant us peace.

COMMUNION OF THE FAITHFUL

Priest: This is the Lamb of God, who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are those who are called to his supper.

Priest/People:

Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and I shall be healed.

Priest:The body of Christ.

Communicant: Amen.

AFTER COMMUNION

A period of silence may now be observed, or a psalm or song of praise may be sung.

PRAYER AFTER COMMUNION

Priest: Let us pray… forever and ever.

People: Amen.

All stand

CONCLUDING RITE

Priest: The Lord be with you.

People: And also with you

Priest: May almighty God bless you, the father , andthe Son, + and the Holy Spirit.

People: Amen.

Priest: Go in peace to love and serve the Lord.

People: Thanks be to God.

Ouch its hurt u know wat!!!!

Filed under: Uncategorized — simplejhajha at 4:33 am on Sunday, December 7, 2008

sana di ka na lang nagtext na dumating ka na pala ng phils.  un pala isang araw ka na nasa inyo peo wala ka man lang ginawa para sa akin na itext ako at sabihan na dumating ka na, um sa bagay alam ko naman real score between u and me , malaki talaga tampo ko sayo ginawa mo ako tanga, pinaasa, at sinaktan pa feeling ko, sana man lang sa gitna NA KASAYAHAN NYO eh naALALA MO ako peo hindi na ako ganun kahalaga sayo kaya BALEWALA nalng sayo o baka nman NAGANTI ka sa akin? ok  peo yaw ko na…. suko na ako nawewaste lng me ng time sau, tpos di ka pa nagtetex sa akin ngayon nadito k na… sinabi mo pa alltext ka peo 3 text ka lang sa akin.. kaya alam ko  na kung saan ako lulugar… am geh mxado na akong tanga sau nakakhiya, hindi nman ako ganito eh!!!! mas Madami pa jan higit sau,,,,, naging bUlag lang ako!!!! tama na….. alam ko sa self ko na kaya ko to….